Happiness... wat is it 4u?

Happiness... for me 'It is a feeling of inner peace and satisfaction.'

Everyone wants to be happy.. all of us seek happiness in life, in different way ... say it in money, success, status, recognition ... more ... Unfortunately, many people never reach the level of happiness they desire. God has given happiness to everyone. It is our attitude that makes us feel happy or unhappy.

I agree, we have different situations during the day, and some of them may not result in happiness. Its upto us to think about the unhappy events or instead cherish the happy moments.

Here are few lines i found

… “Sad people should try to increase the frequency of positive emotions in their lives by doing things that make them feel happy, even temporarily,” said Prof Lyubomirsky.

But there is a caveat: your happiness boosters should not be dangerous, like driving fast, or counter-productive, like eating lots of chocolate.

If you can raise your spirits, the benefits can be manifold. “Happy people are more likeable and more sociable. They are also better able to cope with stress and likely to be healthier and live longer.”…

We always blame on situations or other people if we’re not happy. Your happiness is your responsibility. You can decide to be happy.

With that in mind, here are few ways to find happiness in life:

1) Always look at the bright side. The mind may drag you to think about negativity and difficulties. Don't let it. Look at the good and positive side of every situation.

2) Think of solutions, not problems.

3) Stop comparing yourself with others

4) Count your blessings.

5) Try to devote some time to reading a few pages of an inspiring book or article.

6) Watch your thoughts. Whenever you catch yourself thinking negative thoughts, start thinking of pleasant things.

7) Always look at what you have done and not at what you haven't.

8) Each day do something good for yourself... eating something you love, watching you favorite program on TV or going to a movie.

9) Each day do at least one act to make others happy. This can be a kind word, helping your colleagues

10) Always expect happiness.

11) Do not envy people who are happy. On the contrary, be happy for their happiness.

12) Associate with happy people, and try to learn from them to be happy.

14) Smile more often.

15) Find your inner Voice.

..............Well im posting it but still far in applying them.

Do you think you know ur future ?

U know friends, we always try to find out our future from various sources, an astrologer, books, tv, radio... But i believe that no one can read the future, you only can guess it...

To make it more clear .. here is one extract from the book 'THE ALCHEMIST' -

"No one can read the future, only can guess it. The future belongs to God, and it is only he who reveals it, under extraordinary circumstances. How do one guess at the future? Based on the Omens of the present. The secret is here in the present. Its you pay attention to the present, you can improve upon it. And if you improve on the present, what comes later will also be better. Forget about the future, and live each day according to the teachings, confident that God loves his children. Each day, in itself, brings with it on eternity".

WHEN GOD ALLOWS ONE TO SEE THE FUTURE?
Only when he himself, reveals it. And when he does do, it is for only one reason. Its future that was written so as to be altered. "

I believe on this extract.. If u ask me can we really received an Omen ... ?? i'll say YES... God can signal u in any form.. dreams , intutions ... more ... but interpreting it is not easy ...

Now what are dreams?
Dreams are the language of GOD. When he speaks in the language of the soul, its only you who can interpret and understand.

And Intuition ?
Intuition is really a sudden immersion of the soul into the current life... where all people are connected, and we are able to know everything.. because its all written.

DIVYA ARORA

Some Extremely Well Written Lyrics ...

Dont know y im posting this ... bt today i just wanna share some well written songs. Lines i like are in red. Suggest me more song lyrics.



Song: Ajj Din Chadheya
Lyrics: Irshad Kamil
Music: Pritam
Singer: Rahat Fateh Ali Khan

Ajj din Chadheya
Tere Rang Warga
Ajj din Chadheya
Tere Rang Warga

Phul sa hai khila Aaj din
Rabba mere din yeh na dhale
Woh jo mujhe khawab mein mile
Use tu lagede abb gale
Tenu Dil da Vasta

Rabba aaya dar de yaar de
SAra jahan chod chad ke

Mere sapne sawar de
Tennu dil da vasta

Ajj din Chadheya
Tere Rang Warga

Baksha gunaho ko
Sun ke duwao ko
Rabba Pyaar hai
Tune sab ko hi de diya

Meri bhi aahon ko
Sun le duwao ko
Mujhko woh dila mene jisko hai dil diya
Hoooo

Aasmaan pe aasmaan uske de itna Bata
Woh jo mujhko dekh ke hase
Pana chahun Raat din jise
Rabba mere naam kar use
Tenu Dil da Vasta

Ajj din Chadheya
Tere Rang Warga

Manga jo mera hai
Jata kya tera hai
Mene kaun si
tujhse jannat manga li

Kaisa khuda hai tu
Bas naam ka hai tu

Rabba jo teri itni si bhi na chali

Chahiye Jo mujhe
Kar de tu mujhko ata

Jeeti rahi saltanat teri
Jeeti rahe ashiqui meri

Dede mujhe zindagi meri
Tenu dil da vasta

Rabba mere din yeh na dhale
Woh jo mujhe khawab mein mile
Use tu lagede abb gale
Tenu Dil da Vasta

Rabba aaya dar de yaar de
SAra jahan chod chad ke

Mere sapne sawar de
Tennu dil da vasta

Ajj din Chadheya
Tere Rang Warga




Hindi Song: Mein Ghum Se Rista Jod Ke Jau Kahan
Movie or Album: Billu Barber
Singer(s): Raahat Fateh Ali Khan
Music Director(s): Pritam
Lyricist(s): Sayeed Quadri

Kab se usko dhondta hoon, bhegi palko se yahan
ab jane woh kahan hai, tha to mera ashiyan
rabba mere mujhko bata, haaye de mujhe kyon yeh saza
sare bandhan thod ke, yaadon ko tanha chod ke
mein ghum se rista jod ke jau kahan

ek chhota ssa jahan, chand khushiyon se bhara
usko mujhse cheen kar hai, mil gaya tujhko bhi kya
abb hai fakat sirf jaan, kar dun mein woh bhi aata
ab sare bandhan thod ke, yaadon ko tanha chod ke
mein ghum se rista jod ke jau kahan

waqt ke kitne nishaan hai, zarei zarei mein yahan
doston ke saath ke pal, kuch hasen kuch gumjyda
sab hua abb to fanna.., bas raha baki dhuan..
ab sare bandhan thod ke, yaadon ko tanha chod ke
mein ghum se rista jod ke jau kahan

kab se usko dhondta hoon, bhegi palko se yahan
ab jane woh kahan hai, tha to mera ashiyan
rabba mere mujhko bata, haaye de mujhe kyon yeh saza
ab sare bandhan thod ke, yaadon ko tanha chod ke
mein ghum se rista jod ke jau kahan

Hindi Song: BEETE LAMHE
Movie or Album: The Train

Dard mein bhi yeh lab muskura jaate hai
Beete lamhein humein jab bhi yaad aate hai
Beete lamheinnnnn

Chand lamhaat ke vaaste hi sahi
Mushkura kar mili thi mujhe zindagi

Teri aagosh din the mere kate
Teri baaahon mein thi mere raatien kati

Aaj bhi jab woh pal mujhko yaad aate hain
Dil se saare gumo ko bhoola jate hai
Dard mein bhi yeh lab muskura jaate hai
Beete lamhein humein jab bhi yaad aate hai

Beete lamheinnnnn

Mere kandhein mein sar ko Jukana Tera
Mere sene mein khud ko chupana teraa

Aake mere panaho mein shaam-o-seher
Kanch ki trah woh tut jana tera

Aaj bhi jab woh manzar nazar aate hai
Dil ki viraniyon ko mita jate hai

Dard mein bhi yeh lab muskura jaate hai
Beet lamhein humein jab bhi yaad aate hai

Beete lamheinnnnn
Dard Mein .....Beete lamheinnnnn

Hindi Song: Na Jaane Kyun Hota Hai
Movie or Album: Chhoti Si Baat

Na jaane kyun hota hai ye zindagi ke saath
achanak ye man kisi ke jaane ke baad
kare phir uski yaad chhoti chhoti si baat
na jaane kyun

Jo anjaan pal dhal gaye kal
aaj wo rang badal badal
man ko machal machal rahein hain chhal
na jaane kyun wo anjaan pal dhal gaye kal
aaj wo rang badal badal
man ko machal machal rahen hain chhal
na jaane kyun wo anjaan pal
saje bina mere naino mein
toote re haaye re sapno ke mahal
na jaane kyun hota hai ye zindagi ke saath
achanak ye man kisi ke jaane ke baad
kare phir uski yaad chhoti chhoti si baat
na jaane kyun

wohi hai dagar wohi hai safar
hai nahi pass mere magar ab mera humsafar
idhar udhar dhoonde nazar
wohi hai dagar wohi hai safar
hai nahi pass mere magar ab mera humsafar
idhar udhar dhoondhe nazar
wohi hai dagar
kahaan gayi shaamein madbhari
wo mere mere wo din gaye kidhar
na jaane kyun hota hai ye zindagi ke saath
achanak ye man kisi ke jaane ke baad
kare phir uski yaad chhoti chhoti si baat
na jaane kyun

The Four Candles

Chanakya's Quotes - Worth reading a million times...

• A person should not be too honest. shraight trees are cut first and honest people are victimised first.


• Even if a snake is not poisonous, its should pertend to be venomous.


• The biggest guru-mantra is : Never share your secrets with anybody! it will destroy you.


• There is some self - intersest behind every friendship. There is no friendship without self-interest. This is a bitter truth.


• Before you start some work, always ask youself three questions - Why am i doing it ? What the result might be and Will i be successful. Only when you think deeply and find satisfactory answers to these questions, go ahead.


• As soon as the fear approaches near, attack and destroy it.


• Once you start working on something, dont be afraid of failure and dont abandon it. People who work sincerly are the happiest.


• The fragrance of flowers spread only in the direction of the wind. But the goodness of a person spreads in all direction.


• A man is great by deeds, not by birth.


• Treat your kid like a darling for the first 5 years. For the next 5 years, scold them. By the time they turn 16, treat them like a friend. Your grown up childen are your best friends.

I Have Realised That …

• The lonelier you feel the lonelier the world makes you feel


• Even if I deserve the reward, I need to beg in order to get it


• Words hurt me more than the wounds that I had suffered in life


• When you have nothing to lose, you show your true character


• Closer I am to myself, closer I am to God…


• Broader the smile, deeper maybe the wound inside…


• No matter how many times I pray, I only get what I rightfully deserve


• When I am ecstatic about something, there are never enough people to share it with…


• A face is not as important as it is made to believe…


• It’s not always a coward who gives up a fight, sometimes smart people too…


• You can’t have happiness unless you are already happy…


• If you make decisions with your heart, you are bound to regret them later in your life…


• Kids are never at fault, they just mirror our faults…


• One person’s misery is another person’s merriment…


• Every relationship has an expiry date…..


• I am better when I am silent….


• Smiling all the time can really hurt…


• Tears convey more than what words can ever say…

On 12th September'09

Yesterday i was upset .. that u are not with us.. bt as one said .. one in ur heart is never far from u.. right... ur within us, how can be far...

On this special day of mine (actually nothing is special without u), today i will not say i miss u... i'll just say i dont miss a day thinking about u. hope to be with u on ur b'day.... LOVE U... GOD BLESS U... Keep smiling always... :))) n see im also smiling :)))

This year, i hv seen n learned a lot... understood the real meaning of LOVE,
FAMILY, HAPPINESS, TOGETHERNESS n RELATIONSHIP. Now I look towards life in a different way... leaving all my negetive thoughts behind.

I dont want to be upset today... just wanna feel that v r with u n ur with us.

YES UR WITH US.

Love iss...

Love is pure language of the world. It requires no explanation.

When u understand this language, its wasy to understand that someone in the world is for u, whether its in the middle of the desert or in some great city. And when two such people encounter each other, and their eyes meet, the past and the future becomes unimportant. There is only that moment, and the incredible certainty that everthing under the sun has been written by one hand only. It is the hand that evokes Love, and create a twin soul for everyperson in the world. Without such Love, one's Dreams would have no meaning.

WHEN U R IN LOVE, THINGS MAKE EVEN MORE SENSE.

What a person's destiny is ?

Its wat u hv always wntd to accomplish. Every1, wen we r young, know wat r destiny is .
At dat point in r lives, everthing iz clear & everything is possible. We are not afraid to dream for everything we would like to see happen to us in r lives. But, as tm passes, a mysterious force begains to convince us dat it will be impossible for us to realize r destiny.

u know wt is Mysterious force -
its a force dat appears to be -ve, bt actully shows hw to realize ur destiny. it prepares ur spirit and ur will bcoz dere is 1 great truth on dis planet. who ever u r or wat ever it is that you do, wen u really want smthing, its bcoz dat desire originated in d soul of the universe. its ur mission on earth.

The soul of the world is nourished by people's happiness. and also by unhappiness, envy and jealousy. To realize on destiny is a person's only real obligation. All things are one.

AND, WHEN YOU WANT SOMETHING, ALL THE UNIVERSE CONSPIRES IN HELPING YOU TO ACHIEVEIT.

Why God Allows Pain

This is one of the best explanations of why God allows pain …

A man went to a barbershop to have his hair cut and his beard trimmed. As the barber began to work, they began to have a good conversation. They talked about so many things and various subjects. When they eventually touched on the subject of God, the barber said: “I don’t believe that God exists.”

“Why do you say that?” asked the customer. “Well, you just have to go out in the street to realize that God doesn’t exist. Tell me, if God exists, would there be so many sick people? Would there be abandoned children? If God existed, there would be neither suffering nor pain. I can’t imagine a loving God who would allow all of these things.” The customer thought for a moment, but didn’t respond because he didn’t want to start an argument.. The barber finished his job and the customer left the shop.

Just after he left the barbershop, he saw a man in the street with long, stringy, dirty hair and an untrimmed beard. He looked dirty and unkempt.. The customer turned back and entered the barber shop again and he said to the barber: “You know what? Barbers do not exist.”

“How can you say that?” asked the surprised barber. “I am here, and I am a barber. And I just worked on you!”

“No!” the customer exclaimed. “Barbers don’t exist because if they did, there would be no people with dirty long hair and untrimmed beards, like that man outside.”

“Ah, but barbers DO exist! That’s what happens when people do not come to me.”

“Exactly!” affirmed the customer. “That’s the point! God, too, DOES exist! That’s what happens when people do not go to Him and don’t look to Him for help. That’s why there’s so much pain and suffering in the world.”

Memo From God

Date: Today
To: You
From: God
Subject: Yourself
Reference: Life


This is God. Today I will be handling ALL of your problems for you.

If life happens to deliver a situation to you that you cannot handle, DO NOT attempt to resolve it yourself! Kindly put it in the SFGTD (something for God to do) box. I will get to it in MY TIME. All situations will be resolved, but in My time, not yours.Once the matter is placed into the box, do not hold onto it by worrying about it. Instead, focus on all the wonderful things that are present in your life now.

Just think -

If you find yourself stuck in traffic, don't despair. There are people in this world for whom driving is an unheard of privilege.

You have a bad day at work; think of the man who has been out of work for years.

You despair over a relationship gone bad; think of the person who has never known what it's like to love and be loved in return.

You grieve the passing of another weekend; think of the woman in dire straits, working twelve hours a day, seven days a week to feed her children.

Your car break down, leaving you miles away from assistance; think of the paraplegic who would love the opportunity to take that walk.

You notice a new gray hair in the mirror; think of the cancer patient in chemo who wishes she had hair to examine.

You find yourself at a loss and pondering what is life all about, asking what is my purpose? Be thankful. There are those who didn't live long enough to get the opportunity.

You find yourself the victim of other people's bitterness, ignorance, smallness or insecurities; remember, things could be worse. You could be one of them!